Does anyone else ever feel like they’ve lost literally all motivation and all you want to do is curl up in a ball in bed and eat junk and watch films and avoid all other responsibilities for like 37 years or so
It’s almost the end of the year and as a small thank you, as well as a way to gift for the holidays, I wanted to give something to you for the upcoming New Year. It’s gonna be a short giveaway for the holidays since I’ve never done this before. Being in NY gives me access to the Line Friends Store plus I know many cannot afford to buy one so I’d like to offer this: 2 winners will receive a BT21 standing doll OR BT21 face cushion (30cm) of their choice + small freebies
This Giveaway is open worldwide to everyone I will be using a random name picker (this one) to choose the winners Giveaway ends on the end of New Year’s Day January 1st, 2018 at 11:59 p.m EST
jonghyun: i was messaging my sister. my sister just say: “i love you” and i really dislike the phrase “me too”, so i just sent her “i love you”. i sent it, then we joked around and she wanted to hear me say it in my voice so i sent her a voice message saying “i love you”, too. go young bae: do you say “i love you”? even to your sister? jonghyun: yes, saying “i love you” is not a weird thing to say between people who love each other. (source: cosmicsticks / thatcoolcatmeow)
i got in touch with my therapist and here are some things she suggested, and im sure many of us can use this advice. its summarized as all hell but i hope its enough to give some good ideas if you feel lost.
-if youre in shock like me, its ok to distract yourself until you feel ready to deal with loss. binge those shows youve been wanting to see. read a series you love. if you have things to do, focus on the task at hand
-take care of your body. drink plenty of water. if youre feeling sick, eat and drink things youd normally have when sick like soup and crackers and ginger ale
-if youre heavily dissociating, focus on your breathing and on your surroundings. list everything you can see, hear, feel, smell
-keep clean. shower. use that facemask youve been saving. use expensive lotion. put essential oils in your bath. brush your teeth after every meal
-clean your space
-buy cheap candy canes and just eat them. mint helps with everything
-talk to your loved ones. this is the most important. call a relative you love but havent talked to in a while. play with your pets. tell your family whats going on, or your friends. verbalize everything you feel and if you feel nothing, its okay to say that. dont keep your feelings to yourself right now, unless you know that you deal better working through loss by yourself.
